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I used to date a guy that liked dancing...so much that he made it his profession.
I hate dancing. I am not good at and it is an actvity that doesn't speak to me. I am not even that big of a fan of music. Honestly.
He tried to get me to dance with him and I hated every moment of it. He would force me on the dance floor. When I asked him why he didn't respect my likes and dislikes, he asked my why I didn't love him enough to enjoy what he loves. That was unfair of him in my opinion. For one, he doesn't care about school, but I am going for a PhD in Education. He used to rant about how corrupt the brick and mortar education system was and how that created robots and not creative free thinking human beings. I was a teacher when we met for goodness sake. I put up with his ranting and raving for as long as he didn't try to force me...but eventually he did and I just walked away from that guy. You are probably better than the guy I used to date. For some reason, a bookworm like me attracts artistic types. I also used to date a poet. That didn't work out either. lol
If he really does not want to dance, you should respect his likes and dislikes. If you cannot, and it bothers you, you either must make peace with it or ....choose to walk away from this relationship. The last option is extreme but some people have a passion for what they want...but you still need to respect that others want. I am sorry, there is no easy way to address your problem. Edited by iampheng, 19 January 2013 - 04:38 AM.
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